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How To Choose The Right Mediator For Your Family Law Matter

How To Choose The Right Mediator For Your Family Law Matter

Choosing a mediator in a family law matter is a bit like choosing a pilot. You want someone who has experience, good judgement, the ability to stay calm under pressure and, ideally, a solid understanding of what happens when things go sideways. Why? Because mediation...

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There Are No Winners In Family Law

There Are No Winners In Family Law

This is one of the first things we tell clients. Not surprisingly, the clients who take this on board usually have the best outcomes. Family law is not like a sporting event. Nobody is standing on a podium at the end holding a trophy while confetti falls from the...

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You Don’t Need to be Friends to Mediate Successfully

You Don’t Need to be Friends to Mediate Successfully

Let’s get one thing straight from the outset: family law mediation does not require you to be friends, friendly, or even civil. If it did, we wouldn’t have jobs. The truth is, mediation works even when people can’t stand each other. It works because it’s structured,...

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Mediation Vs. Court: Cost, Time, Stress – A Real Comparison

Mediation Vs. Court: Cost, Time, Stress – A Real Comparison

When a relationship ends, a lot of people assume court is inevitable. Cue the dramatic courtroom scenes, the drawn-out arguments, and the bank-draining legal bills. But here’s the truth: most family law matters don’t need to end up in court. In fact, they shouldn’t....

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How to Prepare for Mediation

How to Prepare for Mediation

When relationships break down, most people assume they’re headed straight to the courtroom. But here’s the truth: family law mediation is often faster, cheaper, and far less traumatic than litigation - if you’re prepared. Whether you’re dealing with property...

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Understanding Spousal Maintenance

Understanding Spousal Maintenance

SO, WHAT IS SPOUSAL MAINTENANCE? (AND WHY YOU MIGHT HAVE TO PAY IT… OR BE ENTITLED TO RECEIVE IT) When a relationship ends, you don’t just walk away with your peace of mind and half a house plant. Sometimes, you walk away with a financial obligation too. Enter:...

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Understanding Separation and Divorce

Understanding Separation and Divorce

Let’s be honest. Separation sucks. Whether it was your idea, their idea, or a slow, soul-destroying mutual fizzle, breaking up is hard to do. And when you throw in legal jargon, timelines, and paperwork? It’s a minefield. So, let’s make it simple. At Spencer Family...

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